what do you hide from girls so you won’t get rejected?

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1. Mental health issues

2. Nothing. I am who I am and if you don’t like that then we wouldn’t work together anyway

3. My boner

4. My children, my girlfriend and my wife.

5. My collection of Farrah Fawcett posters.

6. My massive penis

7. Nothing anymore.

8. My feeling towards them. Can’t get rejected if you don’t shoot your shot

9. My depression

10. My… me

11. Insecurities

12. I don’t hide, I just maintain a wide bearth.

    I don’t engage…

    I don’t stop…

    I keep it moving.

13. that I have depression and go to therapy, people like you more when they think you’re just the lovable goofy ball

14. My nerdy hobbies and relationship traumas.

    Edit: sometimes I like wearing certain styles of clothing that are very uncommon where I live. I either get compliments or get roasted like a stuck pig.

15. Browser cache

16. Nothing, they’ll find out eventually and then ive wasted both our time.

    Find someone who accepts you for you

17. My non erect dong dong

18. liking anime and other nerdy shit

19. Being bisexual!

    Nowadays I’m openly bi and it’s one of the first convos i’m having. But a couple years ago when it wasn’t as widely accepted I had trouble finding ways to ease into it.

    I’ve learned now that it isn’t really an issue for most girls who are straight.. they just want to be able to rely on you not cheating on them.

20. my mental state but with boys

21. my testosterone deficiency and the resulting consequences that are still in diagnose

22. My crackheadedness. I’m generally polite at first.

23. Nothing. Honesty is important and if something about me makes us incompatible, that needs to come up sooner rather than later.

24. I still like Legos.

25. My pony jar

26. Nothing in particular. I try to be an open book with dating. If they ask somethign personal about md, I’ll answer as truthful as possible. It leads to more interesting conversations and honesty. If they reject me for it, that’s fine. It would’ve only lead to friction at the end of the road anyway.

27. I always felt I had to hide how much I wanted/liked sexual activity so I wouldn’t get accused of only wanting sex and or a pervert.

    I think I had a high sex drive, even for a man. Could have had sex 2-3 times a day I my teens and early 20s. Could have had it every day in my late 20s early 30s. I never dated any woman that wanted sex that much. Only knew one guy that said his wife wanted it everyday, but she was pregnant at the time so I think her hormones were out of wack.

    It’s funny but my wife and I were kinda talking about this just the other day. We’ve been married over 20 years and I said to her; “You know when we first got married I could have had sex with you every day for the first year or two. She looked at me surprised and horrified. Said she didn’t know that and I said I didn’t tell her that or try and have sec with her that much because I knew she didn’t want to have sex that much. She said that’s good and I was right.