i have a fear of sucking dick

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1. You can do a lot without even sucking or inserting his dick into your mouth. Licking, kissing, sliding your lips around on sensitive parts, caressing his balls, areas around that feel good to him, etc. Also, you could basically do 80% of the work with your hands and it would still look and feel like oral sex.

2. I had fears that I would be awful at eating P or women would be turned off by me not being circumsized. If its something that truly sounds awful to you dont feel obligated ever. If its something you really want to try then just discuss it before hand. There are tips on how to avoid teeth or similar worries and no caring BF would be turned off by your asking for feedback when offering a bj. I always found the effort to be a huge turn on as there is no direct pleasure for the performing partner usually. But only try it if you truly want to and not because you feel forced or obligated. It should be fun for everyone.

3. Out of all of the blow jobs I’ve been given…. Only one was bad and I can’t even remember why anymore. Anytime someone would want to please me like that I have the utmost respect for them. Just let him know that you are not sure about what your doing and have him tell you what he would like. As long as you’re comfortable with it, accept it as constructive feedback.

4. Throat the tip and do the rest with your hands. You’ll be fine.

5. Believe it or not, the partner that gives you oral also has teeth, you don’t need to touch the genitals with them.

6. Get him to wear a blindfold for the first couple times. Just explore what sensations he likes. Don’t be scared of it.

7. You can’t fail a BJ. Don’t worry and you will know what to do whitout thinking of it… and become his personal godess for 15 minutes lol.

8. >and i have teeth

   Good news, most humans have.

   >what if he feels them…

   Wrap your lips around them.

9. so i have a gag reflex that would make darwin proud and a super bad anxiety problem surrounding vomit so i was terrified too. here’s my advice

   – you don’t have to take him all the way in, besides the most nerve endings are on his tip
   – breathe through your nose
   – **don’t do it if you aren’t comfortable, so many other things y’all can do**
   – if your worried around teeth the idea is to wrap your lips around them
   – guys do like watching (or somtimes their head is back if your doing a good job)
   – **you don’t have to finish him that way, it can be fun to start him off that way and finish him with your hands if you need to stop**
   – its something you don’t have to be good at immediately, like anything its a learning process

10. Take it slow. Start with a handjob and when your ready to put it near your mouth. He’ll probably enthusiastically start lifting his hips to get it in your mouth. Be in control but let his excitement guide you.
    Like others have said I’ve had one or two bad ones that I can’t even remember why they were bad.
    In my opinion even the bad ones are good ones.

11. Hey, even bad head is pretty awesome

12. Ask him if he would be ok with you trying when he is asleep