I resent my husband. He seems to resent helping me, is this a real relationship?

I don’t know if im being reasonably upset right now or being ridiculous, but i feel as though i can never really count on my husband to help me with stuff he CAN help me with. Example, my car battery has been needing replacement for a while, my husband replaced the battery years ago, so I asked him if he could do it this time or if i should take it in. He said to take it in to get serviced, but that i would be okay to wait a bit longer. Whelp, battery died today and he was like, “okay i’ll go to the store to get a battery” – i’m like WTF you told me to get it serviced!! And that it was fine to wait!!! (I had made an appointment for tomorrow morning – of course battery had to die today though lol). I told him forget it, i’ll call to get the car towed to the Firestone place and he said, “Okay………if you need me to i can jump it.” It seems like a hassle for him to do these things within his skillset. Another case in point, i’ve been wanting a new couch for over a year. I found a couch that has been out of stock the last month and i finally got it as a deal on clearance. I asked him if we could take his truck because we only have 4 days from purchase to pick it up. For the last 3 days he’s come home saying he doesn’t feel well, so he doesn’t want to pick up the couch. I’m getting the hint he doesn’t want to take his truck. I just reserved a uhaul for tomorrow and im going to get the couch myself and also hire furniture movers for a couple hours to take out the old couch and bring in the new one. I just cried tears of pain because i feel like i can’t count on my husband for even harmless yet burdensome tasks. Should i feel understanding that this stuff maybe be bothersome and see where he is coming from in not wanting to do this stuff? I’m just sad but also irritated and i feel resentment towards him.