I’m in a tough place right now. F(26) boyfriend (30). I always have these moments — what if I end up with the wrong person, what if I shouldn’t continue this relationship anymore.
There are a lot of factors in our relationship why I talk and feel this way but it’s cause deep down I want to settle down but he is not financially ready.
I don’t know when he will be ready because he doesn’t do much to improve his financial standing.
Most of his friends are having kids and getting married and I’m not even pressured about it, but I can’t help thinking those people are lucky they are finally starting a family.
I’m not selfish, I don’t pressure him. I support him with whatever he’s doing with his life but until when?
We’ve already talked about our future house, condo, kids, etc. but I have this feeling that it won’t be anytime soon. I have this feeling that I have to wait 5 more years, and when that day comes I’m so afraid that I will feel I end up with the wrong person. Anyone get what I mean?