Guys who are happily married or long-term relationships: how long did it take you to start crushing on her?

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1. Instantly. The moment I saw her

2. To start crushing is not really the thing – to find out that you both are comfortable living with each other is way more important. You have that other person around you. A lot.

3. i never got a chance to. she found ME, and shortly after, we mutually decided we’d better stick together because not many people could tolerate us longer than a few weeks 🙂

4. crushes are usually instantaneous for me, wanting to be in a relationship with someone is what takes time

5. Instantly. Together 20 years, married 15.

6. Few months. Turned into friendship and slowly progressed. No honeymoon, no buterflies. 22 years together.

7. I both crushed on her and knew I wanted to legitimately be with her the moment I saw her.

8. Not long. I thought she was cute when I first saw her of course.

9. With her? Before I met her as she was walking toward me. About 30 seconds into the conversation, the crush was totally on.

10. Right away for both of us.

11. i couldn’t take my eyes off of her from pretty much the instant we met.

12. I did pretty much from the moment I met her. Took four more years until we started dating though. Still crushing on her 18 years later.

13. You’re supposed to have feelings for them *before* you get into a relationship. Doing it the other way around is…retarded.

14. Moment I met her. Just took two and a half years to heal from prior trauma.

15. First date?

16. What does this mean? How long did it take to crush on her?

17. The second our eyes locked on each other. I saw her stunning blue eyes from across the room and just knew I had to have her.

    Introduced myself, asked her out. After our first date, I told my best friend that I knew I would marry her.

    We just celebrated 30 years. You just KNOW.

18. Like a week