A few weeks ago I met a girl at the bus stop on our way back to our city (we were on the same bus and I saw her in but we didn’t talk until we were there), after a small chat I asked her for her number and she said no problem and gave it to me, i got on my bus to my house and she took hers after. We talked for a few days I asked her out and she agreed. Then after a few days she stopped texting me back. I texted her again asking like if she wanted us to keep knowing each other or going out, and she told me that we just hanged out in a friendly way, and that she never had other intentions.
After this, I should just stop trying to talk to her completely? I already accepted that I got it wrong and I’m not trying to “stay friendly until she realizes she likes me” or something like that, but I would like to keep her as a friend because she was actually pretty funny and we had a couple of common interests, considering also I had virtually no friends, and I need more social connection. But is this even possible or I fucked it up completely? Should I like wait a few weeks then texting her or just move on entirely?
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Just keep talking to her and hanging out. Just don’t make it awkward by trying to treat her like she is more than a friend. If you feel like you can’t do that, then it might be best to just let her go.
Maybe tell her the same thing you said on this post – that despite her not being interested in a romantic relationship, you are interested in being friends. Find out what her thoughts are and if she is comfortable with that.
Sounds like you’re doing fine.