I’m trying to sort out wtf happened in an abusive relationship I’m healing from. One time I gave him a bj with him kind of hovering over my face while I was laying on my back. The second he came he pulled out of my mouth and it went all over my face, hair, up my nose and in my eyes.

I was shaken and shocked. He swore he didn’t mean to or have control over it. But he lied a lot (even admitted to being a pathological liar later in our relationship) and was just a mean person who overtly disrespected me many times. He definitely knew that this would not be something I’d enjoy.

Is it possible he couldn’t control it? Or was he lying?

10 comments
  1. Well, it is possible.

    But, if he was someone who abused you and had little respect for you, the more probable thing is that he wanted to cover you like that. It is a fetish behavior to do so. As some sort of claim over you, and to degrade you. He most likely saw it in porn and wanted to try it.

    A more respectable man would discuss this need to try that with you first. And gain your permission.

  2. He knew what he was doing…if it was one accidental spurt as he was pulling it out of your mouth I might give him the benefit of the doubt but he definitely could have re-aimed the rest of it…

  3. While actual ejaculation is somewhat involuntary, the way you describe how he was lining things up has a real porny money shot feel. I would be very sus.

  4. Yeah i do it all the time. On the bus, at the doctor’s, just imagine this one time it happened while shopping, the cashier had fucked up day.

    Jokes aside… Nope, dude just wanted to cum on ur face and fact you did not like it/wanted it just made it that much hotter for him. He is just disrespectful dick.

  5. Well without the info that he was abusive and disrespectful to you I would be inclined to say it was possible it was an accident.

    But with that info, there’s a high chance it was done on purpose.

    You’ll never really know for sure

  6. You were sucking him off, while laying on your back with him hovering over your face and you were shocked that his cum ended up on your face?

    What did you expect?

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