what’s the next step after being friendzoned?

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1. Respecting her wishes and moving on

2. You’ve reached your destination.
   Either maintain or leave

3. Move on, work on yourself and make her want you instead of you wanting her.

4. Find out which one of her friends, sister, mom, coworker to hit on. Based on HS, College, and work, I’ve seen it happen often enough suggest this strategy. It will get you laid. Prob won’t win her over.

5. Simply because she threw you on the floor you don’t have be her doormat.

6. Be a good friend. Given your dumb ass question you probably need a close friend of the opposite sex.

7. You either accept the fact that you’ll only be friends and if that’s something that you can’t accept then you walk away.

8. You move on, get a girlfriend…then they try to call you out of the friendzone. That’s why you don’t hang in the friendzone hoping to get called out of the farm team…

9. Ether process the feelings and be a friend, or if you can’t process the feelings you show some self respect and leave

10. Go away, stop talking to her, become a better man, gain more sexual experience, come back and realize she wasn’t that great to begin with.

11. You leave her to the dead.

12. Define “being friendzoned”?

13. You leave unless you want to be that guy.

    Even if it turns into a romantic relationship… good chance it’s because you’re her 2nd choice.

    If you’re cool with that, then alright.

14. Be an awesome friend

15. Ask your new friend if she knows any single girls she could set you up with.

16. Hitting the gym and not givin a fluck

17. Seduce her boyfriend to display your heterosexuality and dominance.

18. Fuck off, get drunk, then start all over again.

19. Make like Casper and ghost.

    In a friendly way.

20. Forgotten.

21. Find a different girl

22. No such thing as this mythical label.

    You are either already friends or you’re not.

    Putting you into the “friendzone” after dating with romantic possibility is just a soft rejection.

    Answer: move along and forget they existed.

23. Use it as your fuel to make yourself better. Move onwards and upwards. Goal should be to get her to realize it was a mistake, but you’ve moved on.

24. You leave, cry in a pillow or whatever to get over it and cast your net again.

    Yes leave as in gone, you dont linger around hoping to change her mind or accept the friendzone consolation “prize”.

25. Cry your tears for exactly 56 minutes.

    Then you move on and find someone who wants you.

    Your girl-friend (note the hyphen) will either be happy for you or realize she made a mistake and will finally want you. Doesn’t matter, because you’ve found someone who wanted you the on the first go-round.

    This next part is important…

    **Under no circumstances** do you mess up the new thing to finally try with the girl who considered you the **option** instead of the **choice**!

26. Look elsewhere.

27. Stay friends for multiple years till you eventually confess your love to her, she says you ruined everything, then you never see her again.

28. You can be her friend.

    But romantically you should move on.

29. That’s the last step, actually.

    You’re either in or you’re out.

    Last woman I courted, gave me the “but we can just be friends or fwb spiel.”

    My reply was simple: ” I can’t be friends with a woman I crave. And I damn sure won’t be friends with a woman that knows I want a relationship with her.”

30. There really is no next step. You just respect their boundaries and move on. Not much else you can do. Sorry to hear that. I know that kind of stuff hurts.

31. Ghost

32. Beg and lose your self-respect

33. Get sidewalk chalk and make an outline of the friend zone to visualize the zone. That’s going to look like two boxes probably. One around you and one around the other. There will be space between the boxes.

    That space can change, but the boxes will never overlap.

34. Pee on her carpet to assert dominance

35. Ask yourself “do I want to be this person’s friend?”

    If yes, be their friend. If no, let it go and move on.

    Whether you want to be their romantic partner or not isn’t relevant. Friendship is what’s offered and if that isn’t good, you don’t take it.

36. Two options: 1. Be her friend. 2. Don’t be her friend.

37. Friendzone her or dip out

38. Im pretty sure you’re supposed to stand outside her window in the rain with a boom box playing some 80s glam rock song. It works every time in the movies.

39. Don’t waste time driving down a dead end. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

40. Ghost