Long story short, my wife and I decided to open things up a bit and allow each other to explore with couples or solo with others. No issues with our marriage at all. We get along great, etc.
I understand the whole male/female ratio, and she’s obviously having far better luck finding people to explore with than I am. We’ve been at this a month, and I’ve found a couple of girls to talk to, but nothing has really materialized as far as meeting and what-not.
I’m secure in the fact that she’s not leaving me for someone else, etc. She’s happy with our marriage. My main question is, how can I go about finding someone? I’m on all of the dating apps. I’ve thought about going out alone to a bar or to a swingers club here in Atlanta, but I don’t have much experience with either. Really struggling here. Feeling lonely sometimes and feeling left out.
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Yeah, your story is typical. Women just have far more options with getting sex than men, and it’s always been like that, and always will be. Open relationships are a poor man’s game, and you are kidding yourself if you believe otherwise
Your marriage is over!
I’m gonna bet 1 dollar you suggested this thinking it would be great
I’m sorry it’s been tougher on your side. I know about another couple who did the same thing and the guy got a lot of resistance from women online when he told them he’s in an open relationship. The women must’ve not believed him and thought he was cheating or something. Going to a place in-person with like-minded people is a great idea. Would it even be possible for you and your wife to do this together and look for a third to have fun with?
The open relationship is a classic way for a woman to cheat on their man with his permission. You shouldn’t have done it dude. Finding a woman these days on these apps and sites is near impossible because they have all the demand whereas men have none. We are disposable in the online market bro. Think about where your relationship was before you started this. Do you really think you two are in a better place? I would just call it off.
Your a better man than me I guess, I couldn’t stand the thought of MY life partner literally being with someone else, the thought doesn’t bother you that another man is inside her? Like that would literally drive me insane.
Honestly, I hope things work out but I couldn’t do it myself personally.