Daydreaming about my moms bf

7 comments

1. If your mom is cool, you could ask permission first.

2. WTF are these comments?! Normal to maybe have a slight crush yes, but beyond that I would talk to someone professionally about it.

3. Get off reddit and go do your homework

4. Fantasy, imagination, attraction… all good.

   Acting on it would not be wise.

5. Every time you enter a room that he’s in, say “What are you doing, step dad?” It’s only a matter of time until something very sexy goes down 🤜🏼🤛🏼

6. Sounds like you have a crush on someone that treats women well. Thats a good thing. Hopefully you find one of your own.

7. Hey, as other have said, having crushes is normal 😊 And if the daydreaming is just thoughts, that’s ok too. If you feel like acting on them, then maybe speak to someone about that. A good therapist would be non-judgemental and help you figure out your thoughts.

   I’m not clear on your question about what is common, but here are some thoughts about what you might be asking.

   Is it common to have crushes? Sure.

   Is it common to want someone who will treat you well? Yup.

   Is it common to daydream about your mom’s boyfriend? Probably not. But it’s hard to say since many people would not admit to it 😅