I recently left my last job and asked out one of my coworkers on my last day. She ended up being sick so I wrote her a really cute note that according to a mutual friend brought tears to her eyes. We’ve been texting quite a bit recently and I’ve honestly felt really good about it. We’ve been trying to schedule a date since the end of March but she’s been very swamped with work because I was part of a decently sized group that left and she’s a manager, along with her brother being in and out of rehab and also moving to a new place in May. My issue here is that she hasn’t messaged me since Easter and it’s starting to worry me. I don’t want to pressure her and it may just be that she’s simply that busy but do I just continue to wait for her to reach out or do I check in on her? If any gals out there have any thoughts I’d love to hear them because I honestly have a pretty tough time knowing what goes on in a woman’s head. Thank you for any help
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I don’t think talking to her after a few days is putting pressure on her. The problem is if you speak to her from a feeling of loneliness or emotional dependency, but if it is simply because you like her and you want to speak to her, speak to her. Take an interest in her and see how she’s doing. Sometimes not doing what we want is what hurts us the most
She don’t like you. When women like you it’s obvious, she just doesn’t