Question- after a decade and a half with only one person who had a relatively small dick, I’ve been dating this new guy and have had sex with him a few times but he is a lot bigger than my ex and it literally feels like he’s stabbing me in the stomach from the inside because he’s so big, haha. Will i stretch out and get used to this? I feel like it will feel better once I’m used to it or stretched out…??? Help!
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Make sure you have an orgasm before penetration. Use lube. If he’s too long and hitting your cervix, they’re are different positions that allow less penetration.
Is he “bigger” in girth or “longer”?
If length is your issue, ohnut rings
Get a dildo bigger than him and use it.
Ask him to slow down and not go so deep to start with…. Also have more foreplay
Ah the perils of r/bigdickproblems. They may have some suggestions in that subreddit.
Thankfully I only ever once had that problem. My dick is quite average in length, 6-1/4″ long, and I had never had that trouble before. I advised my gf to go to the gynecologist to get checked out. That’s when they discovered and removed the orange-sized fibroid cyst from her uterus. No more problem.
He doesn’t understand how to use his “gift”. Spend some time together researching and learning about the fornix zones. These erogenous zones can be highly stimulating for you, but he has to learn how to properly access them for you and stop slamming head-on into your cervix (that’s why it feels like he’s stabbing you in the stomach).
Here are some pages to help you start:
[https://supersmashcache.com/cervical-orgasm](https://supersmashcache.com/cervical-orgasm)
[https://www.vice.com/en/article/434wxb/this-is-how-to-hit-the-other-g-spot-the-a-spot](https://www.vice.com/en/article/434wxb/this-is-how-to-hit-the-other-g-spot-the-a-spot)
[https://www.glamour.com/story/finding-my-anterior-fornix-unlocked-best-orgasm-of-my-life](https://www.glamour.com/story/finding-my-anterior-fornix-unlocked-best-orgasm-of-my-life)
[https://www.lelo.com/blog/deep-spot-orgasms/?gclid=CjwKCAiAy_CcBhBeEiwAcoMRHNLTG1h5D3c-sTi30S3w6i89xCQ_XxYcNkd5JUBeCwvHhq3q-IvoiBoCLCcQAvD_BwE](https://www.lelo.com/blog/deep-spot-orgasms/?gclid=CjwKCAiAy_CcBhBeEiwAcoMRHNLTG1h5D3c-sTi30S3w6i89xCQ_XxYcNkd5JUBeCwvHhq3q-IvoiBoCLCcQAvD_BwE)
Yes, you will adapt to his size. How long? Frequency, duration, station of your uterus/cervix in your cycle, and patience. A little guide:
During ovulation, the cervix rises to a higher level in the vagina. It will be lower in the vagina around the time of menstruation.
I.E. follow your cycle and during ovulation you will accept more. Cheers!