So I think I accidentally caught big feelings for a guy who was supposed to be a fling , Backstory : i went back to my home town (more like city) for this new years and since I’ve been back in the dating scene thought I’d check my tinder while i was there , matched with this cute german guy and met and had 4 days of bootycalls and dates before i came back home .
That was supposed to be that for me and I didn’t think about him as anymore than that , we texted a little everyday tho then after a week of low contact he called me and we talked for hours , just about random life stuff , then started sexting almost every other day and its been like that till a few days ago . So i guess we’ve been talking everyday for 2 months at this point
I started catching feels for him at some point because nobody else I’m talking to or seeing seemed interesting anymore and I am always waiting for him to text me cause it makes me happy so I told him I have a crush on him the day before yesterday and suddenly he’s gone low contact , texting me once a day and avoiding my calls :/ , this really sucks and i don’t know how to process this cause its not like we are anything to eachother but I really miss him and can’t stop thinking about him but also I don’t want to come across as too pathetic or annoying by texting or calling him some more ? What do I do here ? I just can’t stop hurting atm lol and I’m not used to catching feelings either