Common situation; M disengages afterwards/ needs space, F needs words of affirmation, cuddles, feedback. How can we discuss this in a healthy way without making anyone feel bad? Would love ideas and experiences

2 comments

  1. I think the best way is to be open and honest, starting by acknowledging each person has specific needs and seeing where there can be a compromise

  2. After care goes beyond the moment. Depending on things we care it on into the next day. It is not just a few words and cuddling. Discussions of how past experiences felt during and then after can help balance the positive and potential negative in the conversation

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