I’m an introverted extrovert who’s been trying his best to make new friends the past couple years, especially with other gay guys, and it feels like things are only working well for the short-term.
Whenever I meet someone new and we seem to hit it off, we start asking each other to hang out frequently and we get to meet more people, but then things die down after a couple months and they stop asking me to hang out or when I ask them, they give me an excuse and it turns out that they actually still hang out and choose to exclude me.
I’ve asked them if I did anything wrong whenever we roasted each other or when I make a self-deprecating joke, but they said no and that they like me, yet they completely stopped reaching out to me for months. I know it’s totally up to them if they wanna invite me or not, but it frustrates me when this keeps happening.