When I flirt with men, there’s always the assumption I’m submissive. Most of the time when I kiss men they become really dominant really fast and it’s an instant turn off for me. I haven’t had sex, but I’m just wondering how I’m gonna get around this? I know idk what exactly i like sexually because I’m a virgin but Ik for a fact I’m not submissive.
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Tease them. Take control. You got what they want
What exactly is dominant in being forward when you are kissing someone ?
Being dominant when you are in a sexual setting is not about initiation / progression of somthing, it can be sure, but it should be more like a step in a ladder.
Could we get some more info about where it is you are actually turned off ?
If you are not taking steps to be forward / initiator i find it kinda hard to understand what you want to ask us.
And secondly who are you dating / kissing ?
It’s best to just tell them that you don’t like it. Or tell them that you want to take it slower, or to be more gentle. Even just saying “take it easy” can help.
You may need to explicitly express dominance as most men will assume male dominance is a requirement for a relationship.
But you may also require a partner who is submissive but submissive men are required to hide.
if they assume your submissive it’s cause they think “ all men are dommes” and if you sleep with one of these miscreants your banished to the shadow realm of missionary and never cumming
Stop thinking in terms of Dom or Sub. If you flirt it’s because you feel good about yourself and you like men. One way to get their attention is to be flirty. That behavior has no relation to dom or sub. Just meet who you like, date who you like, and if it turns sexual, enjoy. If someone gets too pushy, explain that you won’t put up with it, or just leave. These categories only exist in certain types of porn.
You should put em in a chokehold and body slam them to exert dominance
Tell then to suck your dick if they don’t know who Jeff Buckley is!!