Hey yall, a couple days ago I was home and I ended up visiting a bar I felt comfortable in and I ended up striking some convo with this one guy. It was really REALLY great, almost a relief when we were able to have a deep talk and the bartender even got involved. But throughout this, I couldn’t *add* to the conversation. Earlier that day I had been helping my mom move from place to place and even before that, I was up for around 30hrs traveling. I still blame myself however for not being able to think deeply enough to add to that convo.
I mean does this happen from time to time? I can’t help but blame myself for fumbling the ball on a topic I’m well versed in.
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You probably contributed more than you thought since the conversation didn’t seem to end abruptly. Some people love to hear themselves talk, but you can always say things like: that’s interesting |what makes you think that | what happened next | that’s wild. Not sure what I would have done. You can always start with an article you read or something you watched. It takes a bit of practice, but you’ll be fine.