She’s older than me and was flirty with me but I brushed it off as friendly the first time.
Then I saw her again got her number and arranged a session together. I’ve texted her but I’m really new to this. What should I do?
I am trying to be more myself as I had another crush that didn’t work out well at work. I’m being more true to myself and being more confident.
I obviously don’t want to come off as creepy but I want something to happen. She did say she wanted a workout buddy as well.
I kept looking at her finger for a wedding ring and then she brought up the fact she has an ex and now she’s happy
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I would try to take it out of the gym, go grab some drinks somewhere else. You ultimately want to date her, not be be her “workout buddy.” You already have her number, so don’t worry about thinking it might be creepy.
Relax – cool, calm, collected. Play with her and flirt. She gave you her number and mentioned being single so she’s likely interested. Just focus on making her smile and laugh and it’ll largely take care of itself. Move towards a date pretty quick after a few back and forths of fun getting to know you stuff.
Build on your common interests. How much older is she btw? Don’t catch the feels if you’re her boytoy of the week.