how bloody was it when you lost your virginity?

39 comments

1. Not at all, literally zero

2. No blood at all.

   There shouldn’t be any blood when having sex, first time or otherwise.

   I fucking hate this myth.

   EDIT for clarity. The myth I’m referring to is the myth that your first time will ALWAYS involve blood because you’re “breaking their hymen”.

3. No blood, no pain, nothing.

4. Zero blood

   You typically only are bloody if your partner went to fast

5. None- if you’re in pain take a break / try again another time and go slower. Don’t force it.

6. There was a bit of blood but that’s because I’d only ever had at most 2 of my fingers inside myself and he’s well endowed. I changed my undies 2x in the span of the next day because there was a bit of blood on them. It wasn’t that much though. Definitely put down a sheet or something if you’re gonna do it on the couch.

7. No blood at all, my hymen broke years before on its own.

8. Not at all, that’s a very unfortunate myth.

9. I stretched it myself with a toy and just a tiny bit.

   Edit. Clearly some people here really have a fucking problem anytime I mention anything about toys or masturbation. Fuck you. Everyone says virginity is a social construct. Is it or isn’t it?

10. None. It’s sex, not a murder scene.

11. No blood but a lot of pain because I’m asexual 🙃

12. None whatsoever.

13. I had spotting for about a day and a half afterward. I just wore a panty liner and stayed off my feet.

14. didn’t bleed, didn’t even hurt

15. None

16. It wasn’t. At all

17. No blood and no pain at all.

18. It wasn’t bloody but I remember seeing a little bit of blood mixed with that transparent substance which I think was the hymen. It wasn’t painful or anything at all.

19. There was none for me. No pain either.

20. No pain, no blood.
    That’s mainly a myth, if blood comes out it’s because the woman was not relaxed enough, and the penetration actually hurt. It has nothing to do with virginities, more with bad sex and bad partners.

21. Not at all but then again, I lost mine at 23 and tore my hymen years ago.

22. There was spotting. Lost my virginity with an ex who had a big penis so that’s why I bled lol it also hurt like hell so it wasn’t that great.

23. WHAT … I had blood and thought that was normal!!! I mean it wasn’t a lot, but it got on the guys fingers and dick.

    I truly had no idea that most people don’t have any blood their first time. This is blowing my mind.

24. None.

    You are not supposed to intentionally rip yourself apart.

25. Wow surprised most women had no blood. Everyone’s hymens are different and some women don’t have one at all. I had bleeding and it was SUPER painful!! It hurt so bad I remember putting a pillow on my face to scream into. My hymen was so thick we had painful sex THREE separate times until it didn’t hurt anymore. I guess I’m the only one who had a bloody and painful first time experience. I also remember not even being able to put a tampon in before having sex because it was so damn painful.

26. We had done it a few times (somewhat unsuccessfully because it hurt) and then like a month later there was quite a bit of blood and had no idea what was happening… I thought I broke his penis somehow and we’d have to go to the hospital but it turns out that wasn’t the case…
    Went to the doctors later and they said I had a terrible yeast infection so that’s why it was always hurting. I assume we never got far enough along to break my hymen until that last attempt. Things are better now btw lol

27. Alright, I’ll be the odd one out just so some women in this thread don’t go around thinking that this is a myth like I am seeing in the comments, although I do understand that most women do not bleed. I bled all over the place, all over him, all over the bed. Yes it was painful and we had to stop because I was so mortifed. It happens.

28. No blood very little pain just mostly some discomfort.

    I rode horses as a child and suposedly that can affect weather or not you bleed.

29. None what so ever

30. No blood, I didn’t even know we’d done it bc it didn’t hurt, just thought we were dry humping naked lmaooo

31. Not all all

32. I don’t even remember

33. Imagine the lake of rot, but worse.

34. I lost my virginity while I was on my period, so pretty bloody. But it did not hurt at all.

    I thought at the time that the more lubricated I was, the less it would hurt (because I was raised to think the first time would hurt). And I wasn’t wrong that lubrication is a good thing, but that is why you can buy it in a store. Neither of us knew what we were doing, and adding period blood into the mess made it so much more awkward.

35. Absolutely zero. No blood. No pain. No tearing. No discomfort

36. None?

37. Zero blood but there was definitely some blood when my hymen broke (I believe) at like 10-12 after riding a bike for a long time. It was just a little bit, like 0.5 mL if I had to guess. Never bled as a result of sex.

38. None. There isn’t supposed to be

39. More than I had expected, I was pretty surprised