Recently moved out to uni and had to make new friends, I’ve quickly noticed these groups of people especially the girls don’t appreciate my outgoing persona, I guess they think it’s childish, never had this issue where I grew up, actually sometimes it would help socially. Anyway how do I act more mature and not too outgoing without sitting quiet in a corner cuz I feel like that’s the alternative and then I feel like the guy who’s not involved, I struggle to find a balance.
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Spend more time focusing on them as people. Ask them questions. Take an interest in them as people. You don’t always need to be the entertainment.