All right I’m 23M and recently quit my job to get a better one, however, I’m the last few weeks I was there Girl and I started talking but nothing to crazy until she asked for my number to stop using Instagram to talk about mostly work related things. Last few days it seemed like she was genuinely upset I was leaving, however, I don’t like to confront people on things because I tend to overthink a lot and am anxious af. A week passes, we talk almost everyday, played video games together, and it’s always a good time when we talk.

Now yesterday I was supposed to go to a concert, but she posted that she had free tickets to a baseball game so I said let’s go to it. I told her I was going to go to a concert but I’ll ditch it to go to the game with her that none of her friends wanted to go to. I pick her up, we go to game, everything is going well, no awkward moments or anything until we get to the bar after the game. Granted I’m a few drinks in, definitely feeling myself, and I was going to send a snap to a few of my friends that I told I was going on this “date” with that I think I definitely have a big crush on her, but my dumbass sends it to her on accident. She confronts me and says “What’s this?” But I ignore it and just keep it rolling.

We go back to car and I start to take her home but it didn’t seem awkward or anything. We start to get near her house and she asks to teach her to drive manual so now we’re here at an empty lot and I’m teaching her how to drive. She drives us back to her parents house but my phone is dead so I asked if I could use a charger so I can use gps to get back home. I was only planning to stay for 20-30 mins max, but we end up talking until 4 am. End up hugging and I leave.

I feel like I’m just in my head and I should just ask to hangout again but I’m horribly afraid of her reaction because I don’t want to make things awkward around us because she’s fun to be around. I just don’t know what to do and any advice will help.

tl;dr: accidentally sent crush a video of her saying I liked her. What should I do?

1 comment
  1. Just ask her, if she says no all that happens is that is sucks. She clearly likes you in some way.

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