I (25F) received a call from a parent since I uploaded my profile in matrimonial site.
The parent asked my parent number and they had a conversation. My mom had made it clear to her that I don’t want to get married by this year end as they weee seeking for bride to get married by this year end, yet his mom gave his number and he texted me next day and says that if we can talk.
It was too early for me since I don’t know him and direct call is making alittle comfortable.
His pictures seemed okay to me but I can’t really judge someone based on their pictures so I wanted to take it slow
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Wtf?
I think that this requires some more cultural context because this doesn’t sound like typical western dating that most of could give advice on.
Don’t worry about politeness just be direct.
Very interesting situation tho..
I mean direct call made me feel off about him. All of us have our own comfort zones and marriage seems like a huge decision
The best thing for you is to just be honest and direct. You shouldn’t have to explain to him or his parents anything else than that. If he gets pushy or aggressive, explain to him that both you and your mother declined. If it goes further block him and his mother, have your mother do the same.
Wtf, this just sounds like a bad idea all around.
So you’re not ready but decided to upload your profile and start the process. Sounds weird
>How to say ‘NO’ to man politely
“No, thank you.”
depends on how many cows his family is willing to give to yours
If he asks for your number just say eww
“I’m sorry, but no”
That works.
In America we say “chill bro”
What the actual f is this situation?
If this happened to me I’d be anything other than polite.
Probably hates texting?
If he is taking it too fast for your comfort, being direct might be for the best.
Shot it down if your time lines don’t match
“No, thank you.”
“No, thank you. I’m not interested.”
“No thank you. I have a boyfriend.”