I took a trip to meet his parents back in early February (it was his idea and he kept begging me to go). The trip went very well and he said his parents loved me. They’re actually coming to our city this week and want to meet up again.
I was talking to my boyfriend last night because I felt relationship anxiety and he said he felt thinks moved a bit fast (making things official after a month of dating, meeting his parents 2 months in) and that while things feel really good, he feels that me meeting his parents will put more pressure on us to stay together.
I told him I am not the type of person to let external circumstances influence whether or not I stay in a relationship, and he was glad to hear that, but I am now concerned he is having second thoughts about me.
He did reassure me that he won’t lose feelings for no reason at this point, but I still worry.
TL;DR: spent a weekend with bfs parents after 2 months of dating but now says he feels it was too fast.
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Translation: his parents actually don’t like you and he neither wants to deal with dating someone they don’t approve of, nor put his big kid pants on and be straight with you.
Sorry dudette, I don’t buy his story for a second. It’s the only thing (short of him cheating) that makes sense
Hes worried it will add pressure? Isn’t that the point of meeting the parents? It sounds more like he’s afraid of commitment than losing feelings, but either way its a red flag.