If you ran into her today. And you have a chance to sit down and talk. What would you say/ask her?

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  1. Nothing, you let it go, she obviously didn’t want to be in the relationship and it wasn’t working for her and that is ok. Your heart was broken and that is sad for you. But stirring the old pot won’t do anyone any good.

  2. I wouldn’t sit down with her tbh, I’d ask casually how things are going to be polite but move on quickly, because in the end it’s not really important to me anymore. It would be a bit sad if her life did not get better after we parted ways but even then that’s not really my concern anymore.

  3. Absolutely nothing. And no power play either. They’re an ex for a reason. They are irrelevant to my existence now.

  4. Well I had met my first ever ex at a party last year. She cheated on me with my best friend, dumped me and managed to turn all my friends against me by stating that I was a worthless boyfriend and a bad person, and introduced me to the beautiful world of clinical depression.

    When I met her I did nothing other than greet her, hug her and have fun with my friends at the party because all of it doesn’t matter anymore and life for me has moved on.

  5. Thank you for leaving me, because I couldn’t do it on my own. And I am having a way better life since.

  6. I wouldn’t say anything to her. She’s the fucking bitch who broke my heart.

  7. No. That’s a servile behavior. The best thing that you can do to a bitch like that is ignore her existence. Well that’s the second best. The best is to get a hotter chick and make her see that

  8. “Shouldn’t have been so selfish. Our relationship was more parasitic than it was mutual. I don’t even know if we were even in a proper relationship.”

    “Go have fun with other guys that you used just like you used me.”

  9. I already had that talk with her a couple years after everything was over. ‘Why did you’, ‘I’m not okay and I don’t forgive you’. The whole ten yards.

    But now that I’m a few years older still, and a few years wiser, there’s nothing left to say. If I were to see her, I will ignore her and keep walking. She’s out of my life and I shan’t spare a single second thinking on her.

  10. This may and does sound childish, but I kinda wish I had an ex to brag about my awesome wife and kids to. Only dated and slept with my wife so can’t do that.

  11. Nothing. But if she wanted to talk, “give me one good reason why I should listen to a fucking word you have to say?”

    That would be my ex-wife.

  12. Catch up. It’s been five years, she wasn’t happy in the relationship, even if I was. I couldn’t see that and that’s on me.

    We’ve hung out plenty since those days, she was the photographer in my wedding.

  13. I would tell her congrats on the new house her and her current husband just bought.

  14. If i Saw her .. nothing.. if i Saw her and she Saw me and a conversations was inbound.. id Say hello and be cordial.. she left cuz she didnt want to marry and i did.. we parted ways.. she doesnt know that she broke My heart.. i don’t think she nor anyone needs to know..i don’t hate her for chosing whatever Made her happy

  15. All my exes, we broke up mutually with no hard feelings. I’m rather fond of them and happy for them that they’re doing well. Occasionally, we talk, but rarely, but it’s usually to give each other advice on a particular situation non-romantic related.

  16. Chit chat amicably a bit about what happened since our break up to the both of us and then excuse myself and leave.

  17. Thank you for pushing me to the point of leaving, I should have done it sooner.

  18. Welp….I can’t trust a single word she would say…so I probably would try to keep her from saying much. Also having seen her about 2 months ago with her affair in the car the thought of being in the same room with her makes me physically ill….so it’s got to be a short one sided conversation from me to her. So I’m guessing it goes something like:

    “I truly loved you. I wanted us to be happy together, until our end of days. I wanted us to SHARE a beautiful life. When you moved in with me and agreed to pay one third of our communal bills, I started saving that money to get you a ring. I only ever saved one months of your agreed upon end. You dropped your mask within one month. By month two you were telling me “I’m a strong independent woman and don’t need no man” on a regular basis, meanwhile you didn’t pay your bills for 6 months after. You abused me emotionally, financially, sexually and broke me. It’s a good because I put the pieces back together better than I was before you, and I’m on my way to a happy life with or without anyone. You showed me that the love I had for you was misplaced. I deserved to love myself, and I couldn’t do that with you around sucking my soul out so you could feel something. I understand your a product of your abuse, and I hope you overcome it and are truly happy one day, but nothing excuses how you treated me. Please be better….not for anyone else…but for yourself. You deserve happiness, but we both deserve for each of us not to be in eachothers way to it.”

    I think I would leave then. I don’t need to hear anything from her. Truth is I don’t want to anymore. The past is the past, bit nothing in this world could convince me to add her into my present or future. I do hope she enjoys her life….without ever making a single ripple again in the pond that us my life.

  19. Jokes on you bitch, I have a wife, a child, I own an apt. I have a job and you are still single, getting old and your biggest success is that three guys bought you cigarettes and beer so you saved 10€ so you can spend it for the weekend in some stupid club.

  20. 6 years later I still use her Netflix so I’d probably thank her for that at least

  21. I wouldn’t say anything.

    If I could leave, I would get out of there.

    If I couldn’t leave, I would not associate or be in the same room / proximity as her.

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