I’m 23(F), i lost my virginity with my boyfriend last year and since then I’m not able to achieve orgasm. Also, i just don’t get wet. I’m extremely sexual and have a high sex drive literally all the time. I’m down for sex any time of the day. And he is also great in bed. His size is average but that is not a concern. We use lubrication all the time but I don’t want to use lubrication. I want to be able to get wet myself. Also, I do have hormonal imbalance, getting treated that too. But I’ve always been someone who works out and eat well. I can’t even understand when people talk about orgasm because I’ve never felt it.
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Embrace lube! Everyone makes different amounts of natural lube and this changes as you get older. You can’t control it, you just need to roll with it.
Many woman can’t orgasm from sex alone. Do you try clit stimulation ? Hands, oral etc?
My doctor told me there are women incapable of orgasm Althogh it is rare
I’m Very similar to you, lost V at 22, now 26 and never had an orgasm and don’t really get wet often
Difference is I also have very low libido. Lack of orgasm is pretty normal for women regardless of sex drive, but not self-lubricating despite having a high one does sound unusual for me
Discover your own body , take some time out for youself, dont goal set .
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