I am a 19 year old girl and im a sub in bed. My boyfriend is really good at making me cum whenever he fingers me and I want to reciprocate the pleasure that he brings to me. Since we stick to oral sex, i wanna kn what are the best ways to rock my bf’s world in bed? Should I go fast or slow while giving him a blow job? How long should I stroke it before I put it in my mouth? Would really appreciate some guidance here.
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Ask him what he likes and to give you guidance while you do it so you can learn his tastes during.
Eye contact.
Cover top teeth with top lip, bottom teeth with tongue.
If you’re going to try to deepthroat, clench your abs and take a deep breath.
Don’t forget to pay attention to the balls.
Licking/kissing can be a fun way to give yourself a small break.
Don’t be afraid to get messy.
Try to make your mouth feel as much as a vagina as possible.
I like to start slow and get faster.. or slower.. depending on how much I want to torture him.
Slow then slowly go fast. Build up to it. Hands and kisses at first. Tease and makeout with it. Make sexy eyes and moan. Compliment his penis. Relax your gag reflex before trying to take it all in your mouth and deeper. I’ll say encouraging words to her. He should compliment you.
why does everyone nowadays have to “be a sub” or “be a dom”
like just have sex, it isn’t this big identity thing.
ask for blowjobs, just ask him. what one person likes isn’t what someone else likes. communicate.
Everyone is different and like different techniques. At your age, I doubt he has had many BJ’s so any BJ is going to be good.
And every partner brings out different turn ons. So again…no one way is the best.
For me, the effort and enthusiasm a woman puts forth can make up for poor technique.
Have fun and explore together. Ask what he likes. Listen to his body. If you do something he really likes, his body actuon will be the best tell.
Watch Riley Reid videos and learn from her!