Hi! I have a weird problem where, in multiple relationships, with multiple people, my partners have ended up repeatedly with purple penises/testicles/etc. I tend to prefer being on top, am fairly vigorous, and have a hypertonic pelvic floor, so tightness and intensity might factor in. None of them have ever experienced pain or other symptoms alongside it except sometimes tenderness/sensitivity, and I get tested regularly, so I know it hasn’t been disease or actual injury. Each of them have just chalked it up to marathon sex, but I’m wondering if I’m doing something wrong or should be concerned? I don’t think it’s mostly (or at least not exclusively) from oral, because with one boyfriend it was mostly on the head/shaft, but with my current boyfriend it’s usually testicles.
tl;dr am I hurting my partners riding them too hard? help!
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i had the same problem in my relationship, I am with an older man so he had experienced something like it before and what we came up with together and actually had to try a few things but the best advice i can give is to make sure you are clean down there because women hair can irritate mens balls especially between shaves when the hair is just starting to grow. Step two is lubrication especially after more then 15 mins of intercourse after all the friction. let me know how it goes keep up the intensity just smooth it out. Happy Humping 
I would imagine it’s the hypertonic pelvic floor squeezing them combined with the vigorous motion.
I have never had a partner with that, however, I have had some partners who squeezed so hard at orgasm that they routinely push me out, unless I thrust inward with great effort. But that never resulted in bruising or any similar symptoms.
Does it show up as a problem with urination or pooping? If so, you may want to see if it can be treated.
Best of luck with this