He actually likes me and has had a crush on me for a few months so i assume his feelings are relatively strong. But the thing is, i just don’t want a relationship. But i kinda like him. I feel like since it seems like his feelings for me are serious, it’s disrespectful if i ask him to be my fwb and i’m so afraid of his reaction. That’s why i rejected him when he asked me out. But i keep thinking about him and i feel like i should give it a shot. Do you think it’s disrespectful to ask that? Then he’s gonna feel like i’m taking advantage of his feelings just for sex or that i’m using him for sex.
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It would be a horrible idea. He would likely say yes, get attached, and make things messy
You’ll never know unless you ask. Both of you can agree to rules & boundaries if you’re both communicating like adults.
terrible idea fwb only works if no one gets feelings. If one starts out with feelings they are going to be in for a disappointment.
Disrespectful? No. But you run the risk that it’s going to get messy.
oh it’s you again 😟