We somewhat talked about mutual interest a few months back, but never rly defined anything, which kinda led to me asking for some space.
Now that we are talking again he is somewhat acting differently I guess? He said he is rly busy and doesn’t have time to keep in touch with anyone these days, so I specifically tried to not ask questions/end the convo thinking he didn’t want to text too much.
Instead he has pretty much texted daily, texts more than me now, and also unsolicitedly started talking about how he’s feeling, his insecurities and stuff like that.
Tbh I’m kind of confused what to make of it? And I really don’t understand where this is suddenly coming from.
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As a guy, I use the ‘I don’t have time for anyone’ when I wanna focus on myself. Doesn’t mean I dont want to be social, I’m just not giving too much energy to whatever or whoever I’m talking to. It’s like a state of indifference but then comes along a person I’m into and the slightest bit of attention from them makes me feel like I’m doing something right. I wouldn’t take the sudden attention has a bad thing but I would just talk w bro. He may need a friend rn or want something more, but he isn’t going to rush it or try to force it. Love 🔥
I need more context, like did you guys take a break because one of you didn’t want to DTR?
HIS INSECURITIES.
Is it that hard to understand ?