So. Note here:.. I lost my virginity to this guy and he is the only one I’ve slept with since. So I have no other experience with a man, other than him.
We have had sex enough times to know what’s wrong. I made him cum from blowjob and anal but never PIV. If he did once, it was after the condom slipped off and he asked me to blow him. In all of these times, he used his hand to finish.
I’m not sure what I should do. I’ve tried my best but honestly, I have no idea how to please this person without feeling uncomfortable. I’m not ungrateful, he knows he won’t cum from PIV so he just tries to make me cum instead so it’s not like he takes pleasure in my discomfort.. I just want to know what I’m doing wrong? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something else I could try? Positions, technique or sth? Any advice?
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Probably death grip syndrome. The sensation of piv is much different for guys who grew up masturbating frequently. Nothing wrong with you. He should stop jerking off for awhile
>In all of these times, he uses his hand to finish
So you’ve actually never made him cum?
I was in the same boat. My ex never came from handjobs or blowjobs. We could have sex for over an hour and didn’t come. He was also my first for four years. I didn’t know it wasn’t normal. I thought one pump chump was a joke. It was a huge huge strain on the relationship for me personally.