I’ve been talking to this guy a lot. 3 solid years of meeting each other and hanging out, spending weekends together, different cities. He likes to go daily talking but sometimes he will go a week or 2 before replying. Last week we made plans for this coming weekend. I’m suppose to go to his place and we were going to do this immersive gamebox. I bought tickets already, have dinner planned, and I’ve saved money for the trip. He lives about 8 hours away so we have to plan way in advance. Well… I haven’t heard from him since Wednesday. When he said things sounded good! So… I guess I’m just confused because we planned the weekend but it’s been almost a week since he messaged me, hasn’t even opened my message, and I’m suppose to leave Friday morning. What do I do? I don’t want to be the girl who constantly messages him but I’m starting to worry that he is going to ghost me. But like… he was down for it so do I need a confirmation? Do I go along with the plan and show up? What if something happened and he isn’t home? Someone please help a girl out 🥺🥺
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You are far more into him than he is to you. When the gulf is this wide, emotional damage is inevitable. This relationship is toxic to you. You need to be the one to end it. Now.