Hi! So I (F) have given a blowjob before and kissed a few guys but I feel like I still don’t know how to be good at it.
I want to have some tricks that make me an unforgettable kisser and make my blow jobs unforgettable/ “magic”.
Can I have some tricks that you guys use or that have been used on you? Thank you so much!
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Works for guys too, just be in the moment, express your wants and needs, listen to your partner. Communication is the cornerstone to great sex.
Enthusiasm and communication.
Sorry for being explicit.
Kiss his cock, tell him how much you love it and turns you on. Tell him how much you enjoy the taste and how it feels in your mouth.
Kiss the head of his penis, and then spit it on it and then enthusiastically watch the saliva drip down his shaft and on to his balls, lick it back and kiss the head again and then start sucking it. Hold his base tigh, and grip your lips tightly while lickin up the frenulum and tongue tickle it. As you suck up, stroke down on his cock. Then when his legs are shaking and he cant hold it, stop.
Bring your boobs and hug his cock with them. Then get on his lap and rub your pussy on his cock, don’t penetrate, just ride over make yourself quite wet.
Then go back down on his cock. Hold down his inner thighs, stroke his cock and gently suck his balls, then kiss and lick your way back up thr shaft, push down on its base and suck his cock and lick on the frenulum again while stroke his cock. And when he’s about to cum, tell him how bad you want it, and have him finish wherever you are comfortable
Kissing, slow it down and play around.!!
Blow jobs, depends onthe guy forsure so communicate first but sexy talk and moaning while you’re doing it does a lot! And grab balls! Average guy also likes to be in charge from what I’ve experienced so in the moment ask him how he wants it and let him direct you
Take your time. Don’t try to take his penis deeper than you are comfortable with. And swallow his cum and tell him how good he tastes. And how much you liked sucking his dick. Your words will keep replaying themselves in his mind, so choose them with that in mind. The words you say to reinforce the pleasantness of the experience for you will totally differentiate you from anyone else who gave him a blow job to completion and swallowed, which is probably a very small group to begin with. Good luck. And have fun. Be enthusiastic. And don’t forget about getting pleasure for yourself, also.
This thread just above yours covers a lot of this ground:
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/11g4akx/my_boyfriend_loves_oral_and_i_want_to_get_better/
Comes down to enthusiasm and swallowing.
The magic that works for me (M) is hearing her say she loves doing this and matches that claim with enthusiasm and a couple of compliments for my cock (a memorable word is “glorious”) Her ability to recognize what’s working, what isn’t and the ability to adjust is also great. If his dick is curved, position yourself so the curve goes down your throat more easily. Even if you’re not going that deep it makes a difference. Anything you can do to show him that you are wet is a giant turn on as well.
My most recent gf loved to show me the cum in her mouth, let it drip out onto her chest and pussy and rub it in while moaning about how much she loved it. Definitely made me look forward to the next one.
Be as enthusiastic as you possibly can 🙂 show him how much you love his body, and make sure he knows he crazily turns you on… I guess a lot of men will find that breathtaking:-)
Make occasional eye contact
If you want to be unforgettable, take a shit on their chest. I guarantee they will never forget.
Be passionate and you won’t be forgotten.
Speaking specifically on blowjobs, i’ve noticed that it depends on each individual how they like their blowjobs, but a common thing I’ve noticed is that they like it with alot of spit, also add some hand strokes, one hand or both in a twisting manner while licking the tip, make good use of ur tongue for sure, if you can, take it deep! if you can’t then its fine, alot of them like it when you do amazing work even with just half the 🍆, lastly dont neglect the balls (:
As for kissing, don’t make it a spit-fest unless your partner is into like really nasty, sloppy kisses, tongue work is also important here, also your hands, maybe touch their body, kiss their neck, stroke the bulge, whatever makes the unintended moans or grunts escape from their mouths, do more of that and switch it up.
Hope this helps ☺️
I’d say this. Just like every woman likes oral different, so does every guy. What will work on one may not on another.
My fiance gives amazing head, simply because she knows exactly how i like it.
I know when we were first together she tried one thing that her ex loved and it was a complete turn off for me and made me pull away it was that uncomfortable.
Best way to give unforgettable head is to get to know your partner
I once gave a blowjob to a guy a few years older than me and after he came he said to me “how are you not married yet?”.
It’s all about eye contact and connection. Don’t focus on the dick. Focus on him, his mood, the energy in the room.
Use your tongue on the tip when your jaw gets sore. Men LOVE the sound of sex, so be slurpy, and moan and giggle a bit.
Kissing is all about the hands and other senses. Make sure you smell good since his nose is right up in you. Start gentle and become passionate, faster deeper tongue. Be gentle with your hands and move them on his neck, back of his head, and arms but slowly not too much. Also be aware of your shoulders and chest. You want an inviting posture, comforting. Smile and eye contact when the kiss is done, but a slight smile not overly enthusiastic.
Technique doesn’t make a girl “magic”. It’s attitude. It’s enthusiasm. It’s not making sex feel like it’s a chore or something you just need to get done.
There is no secret just practice. Just gotta put your 10,000hrs in.