(sorry if i make any mistakes, english is not my first language)
I’ve know this girl online for about 3-4 years. We recently had a fight about a guy and she blocked me. The problem i always had with her was that she would just randomly stop talking to me or just start ignoring me, she would always say she was “bad at texting” but she clearly wasn’t. And of course i would always run after her all the time to still be friends, but every time this happens it felt like i had to start all over again, like she didn’t remember my birthday, where i was from, what i liked… it’s like she just used me for a period of time and just threw me away. Another thing that happened was that we had a mutual friend; which since she would just randomly not talk to me; i ended up getting closer to him (never in a romantically way). Out of nowhere she just assumed i liked him and start treating me like trash, assuming i liked him and stuff, never once tried talking to me, she just jumped into conclusion. That mutual friend distanced himself from me and continued talking to her, and of course i stayed alone but eventually tried again ruining after her. A similar thing happened recently, she stopped talking to me (her excuse was she didn’t answer discord messages on her pc, only on her phone) which i thought was weird but i didn’t mind it. I ended up talking more in another server which her ex (they dated fir like a month) was in it and we eventually started talking more. She found out and made a big deal out of it. And that mutual friend i talked about earlier was okay with me talking to him since he did too…but when she found out he took her side. Taking to that ex, i found out i wasn’t the only one of her friends that talked to him but i was the only one that she made a big deal of. I feel like she has a problem with me especially with me but i’m not sure. They were my only friend group so i’m not sure what to do now.
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From what you’re describing she’s just really toxic, i wouldn’t want to stay in touch with a person like that. If they were your only friend group, try talking to people at your school / work, you can also join some interest clubs, you will surely meet someone interesting there. Sometimes leaving your relationships in the past is the best you can do, and it’s really not the end of the world.