I (F24) & my bf (M29) have been together for 2 years now. He has recently began to act weird . He has always been extremely romantic and caring and sweet. After our 2 year anniversary in December he’s been acting ODD. Like he’s a DIFFERENT PERSON.
Examples :
Situation 1) he told me I need to workout my butt because he thinks it’s getting saggy and I’m getting out of shape. He’s NEVER made negative comments about my physical appearance in 2 years. He went from complimenting me daily to this.
Situation 2) I had ankle surgery and the next morning he left me home alone to go play golf with his friend. He would always take care of my when I was sick. Now he leaves me the morning after I have a painful surgery and can’t walk ??
Situation 3) We were drinking at a friends house and he got drunk and began flirting and touching and carrying our female friend. His excuse is that he thought it was okay because he’s always been touchy with her when they’re drunk and that they’ve been friends a long time. And that he’s sorry because he doesn’t remember. LOL HUH?
3 comments
Yes he’s losing interest and he may have gotten him a crush
Or he’s feeling you’re not putting effort in and he’s taking a step back
He’s pulling away. Honestly, I know two years seems like a long time, but it really isn’t. Plus, you’re so young. You may want to go your separate ways. Again, two years isn’t that long, so if he’s acting that way now, I would take it as a warning given just in time.
He’s trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn’t have to be the “bad guy.”