You May Also Like
My boyfriend (18M) wants to partake in sexual activities, but I (18F) am not interested because I don’t experience sexual urges. What can I do to increase my sex drive? I wish I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend, but it’s like my body is not synced up with my mind.
- December 17, 2022
- 5 comments
I know I’m not asexual because I’m not okay with never having sex or engaging in sexual activities.…
What would be the likelihood of having dormant Chlamydia for 3 years vs it popping up in a month or so?
- November 9, 2023
- No comments
Hey all I (25f) have been with my bf (25m) for over 3 years now. The first year…
How to give a hand job and possible make him cum?
- May 1, 2023
- 5 comments
I’m 18 female. im gonna be doing this rlly rlly rlly soon and i need some help on…
4 comments
No. The vagina is the muscle. Is doesn’t get loose just because it stretches. You arm doesnt get loose after lifting weights and stretching. You mouth doesn’t get stretched out from talking. The vagina is the same way. Getting stretched out it is a complete myth.
That being said, make sure he isn’t causing pain. Like your arm muscle if he tears or rips something, you can cause scar tissue and damage. But if its fun and comfortable, you’re all good
I dated someone that was fisted pretty regularly in her previous relationship. Had she not told me I’d have no idea.
Be that as it may, it sounds like your partner is going too fast and not enough lube.
They can get wallered out a bit but it takes real commitment to keep stretching more and more. Then if you stop training it will over time spring back some. If you work up to really crazy wide toys it can make a permanent difference.
Muscle flexibility is (mostly) brain function, not a physical change. You learn to relax and open more, and more. So the vag itself is physically the same, but it relaxes more and squeezes less as you build that habit.