I 24f have had this issue a number of years now and while I have tried some coping techniques whenever I get stressed or anxious, I will start biting or chewing my nails, sucking my thumb, ruining any pens or pencils i see and usually in a relationship the thing that helps best is giving my partner oral.
Just helps me relax, lets my mind drift and get out of any bad moods.
The issue is it just creates an imbalance in relationships. Especially if he is the one frustrating me and then my instinct is to give them oral.
Its very difficult to talk about with someone i start dating and get them to understand
Has anyone experienced this and how did you handle it?
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Have you tried talking to a therapist about it?
I had a girlfriend (adult) awhile ago and it was the first thing wanted before anything else. So I would let her suck me off, and then we would have great sex.