Hai, problem was stated in the title. I’ll give you the rest of the details then you can help me find what I’m looking for. When doing anything penetrative (just fingering so far, not even thinking about dick for the time being), she’s really into it for about… like 10-35 minutes? but before she can cum she always runs into the same problem, a scratchy slightly burning feeling, which means we have to stop. I cut my nails and wash my hands before ever doing it, so does she the few times she tries with herself. We’re both first time partners with no genetic STD history.
She DOES want to cum eventually. I proposed the idea of tongue for a smoother surface that brings its own lubricant. She says she’s hesitant for now and would like to work up to it, which I respect. We’ve also brought up the idea of trying vibes before, but the best I’ve got rn is an app on my phone which doesn’t get very high, and I’d rather not put an investment on an actual vibrator until we’ve gotten the scratchy feeling taken care of.
Have any of you or your partners had this problem before? What did you to to solve/ease it? Any suggestions for what I can do to help my GF directly and/or help her be more comfortable? Any and all input you have is greatly appreciated, thx.
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Have you tried to use KY Jelly?