Recently, I (23M) was at her (25F) place, and I guess she forgot to store away her sex toys because when I entered her room, she started panicking. There were vibrators, dildos, plugs, etc, all sitting on top of her drawer like Funko POPS. I know she uses a Magic Wand, but this felt like the back room of Spencer’s! I asked her about the other toys she had, how they worked, and if she’d be down to show me how she uses it on herself if she was comfortable with it. I guess she was either turned on by me asking or embarrassed because she turned bright red. Still, she showed me.
She used an anal plug and explained that it enhances her pleasure from sex or when she masterbates. The real kicker though was the clit sucking vibrator she had. Her reactions to her using them on her clit were incredible! She kept squirming, moaning and orgasmed pretty intensely. But the best part? SHE CAME IN 3 MINUTES!
When I saw that, I eagerly suggested that we should incorporate them in the bedroom if it makes her cum that easily. Though apparently, she mentioned that I would probably be turned off by it because her past partners, and most guys in general, feel insufficient when toys are used in bed??
To prove that I didn’t mind using them on her, I asked if she was in the mood to have sex so we could try the toys out, and she said yes. I got to stick her anal plug in before we did our usual foreplay to get her warmed up. After 35 minutes, we got to PIV. I grabbed her vibrator and stuck it on her clit while giving her strokes.
Dude… It’s a literal fucking cheat code. I was able to make her cum over 6 times in just half an hour. She even used her regular Magic Wand on the tip of my penis and it made me nut like crazy! These things are game changers. For anyone who feels insecure to use them during sex, I implore y’all to try it out at least once. It’s gonna change your life!
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I love my toys, but I don’t become reliant on them. It’s like death grip for women. If what takes 10 minutes with my husband only takes 2 with my toys… that can be convenient but I don’t like to desensitize my clit excessively. I also don’t expect my husband’s mouth or penis to be a vibe powered by a few batteries.
As a guy I’ve never understood the whole not wanting to use sex toys in bed. Like why would I not want to do anything that makes it more enjoyable for my partner, we’re all here to have fun after all!
Spit roast her! Use a dildo on her while she gives you head.
I would try to make it a special every so often thing. Once using them becomes your normal it’s not as fun or exciting and it could become necessary to climax.
I second this and absolutely love foreplay with toys and incorporating them in the bedroom! My bf makes me squirt uncontrollably with toys..best ever!!!!
Just in case you forgot you were on Reddit this guy described sex toys being laid out like FUNKO POPS lmaooooo
Bought wife every toy she ever had.
Hell yeah brother. (in hulk hogan voice). Toys are friends. Might open the door for you 2 to experiment with yourself too! Since she’s into butt stuff there are some cool DP toys that work nicely. Mine vibrates and feels amazing for me and the girl.
Its not a competition, its tag team wrestling. Doesn’t matter if you or the toy caused the win, you still get your arm raised at the end of the match
Lucky duck! Enjoy!!!
There is not a man as powerful as a machine
There is not a machine as powerful as a man with a machine.
Friendly reminder, sex toys are not your competition, they’re your teammates
I love this 👏🏼
I’m a married Mechanic, and the way I’ve always seen it:
Yeah, I can rebuild an engine with hand tools or I can get the job done a lot faster and more efficiently with power tools. Either way, I still have to know what I’m doing and I’m still the one who did it so…. why not?
I love how open you are this is great
I buy plenty of toys for women… See what they don’t have and explore together. Nothing wrong with enjoying some good orgasms with her.
I can’t wrap my head around men who are
against toys. There is absolutely nothing to be insecure about. You think it would be hot to see your lady squirming when using toys on her?
A man telling me no toys would be a deal breaker for me because I need clit stimulation for the big O. I have many toys but a vib and my hubby is my favorite combination. Nothing better than the real thing for PIV.
Love this post! As a woman who can only orgasm with the assistance of toys.. please shout this from the mountain tops! Everyone deserves orgasms during sex
Sex toys are a cheat code. As a dude, yes please! Instead of 2hrs we can both be ready for sleep in 15-45 min.
Welcome aboard… Next you two should go shopping for power tools (sex toys) together… it’s actually quite fun 👍
hell yes! sex toys are a teammate, not a competitor.
> The real kicker though was the clit sucking vibrator she had.
you can replicate this feeling when you eat her out – make sure your lips are wet, make an “O” shape with your mouth, put it around her clit so that you get kind of a seal, and then inhale gently. and then one or two fingers inside her, pressing on her G-spot. you want to build up a sort of a back-and-forth rhythm between the two. treat the clit like a tiny penis (anatomically, that’s not far off, they develop from the same tissue in utero) and give it a wet, sloppy, messy blowjob.
I also recommend the “4” position – her on her back on the bed, you standing or kneeling over her. she can suck your cock while you finger her or penetrate her with a toy
spooning or reverse cowgirl with her leaning back towards you are good positions for PIV where you can easily reach around and use the magic wand on her clit
try one of the butt plugs on yourself, too. you might be surprised how good it feels. you said she has multiple plugs? try 69ing while you both have a plug in.
Yep, toys are awesome, and the vibrating clit suckers are absolutely the best ever.
Yes sex toys are amazing.
Humans became the dominant species on earth through communication and tool use. No shit that our sex lives improve when we can say “yes, please use that sex toy on me” to each other.
Yes! I’m of the opinion that there’s a sex toy out there for everyone. If you’ve never looked before there are SO MANY different styles and types. Embrace technology and cum like you’ve never cum before
We just started weeks ago. Agreed! It’s a game changer!
Honestly I’d be embaressed if someone entered my room and saw funkopops. At least i could justify sex toys.
I’ll never understand people who don’t like their partners wanting to use toys in bed. Sex toys are coworkers, not competition. They don’t mean you’re not good enough, they’re *tools.* You don’t accuse a carpenter of being a bad craftsman because he uses a motorized saw because he’s not “good enough” to cut wood by hand do you?
I’m sorry but these posts just always remind me how young and childish we are in our 20’s lol
It’s so exciting when our partners are accepting like this. I don’t understand the stigma against toys. Each person has a preference and toys are an enhancement not competition. It’s like guys don’t realize how different our orgasm types are. You could literally give her 5 different type of orgasms this way which will lead to a very happy partner haha. She probably knows her favorite way to cum so I’d ask her if you haven’t already.
Hellll yes !!! Your open mind is awesome. Also shame on her exes !!
Toys are a tool, not a threat! And men deserve toys too. Explore your side of that world too!
As a dude with severe ADHD, I am interested in ” SHE CAME IN 3 MINUTES!” 🤣
> I guess she was either turned on by me asking or embarrassed because she turned bright red.
Could be both