Had a strange quick/extended over a long period of time friendship with one of my classmates. We hung out twice and I ended up crushing on him for two weeks. We don’t text much and I stopped texting 2/3 months ago bc he never texted first except two times while I texted a lot more. I know he said he wanted to be my close friend and was bad at texting but I decided that I didn’t want to pursue this kind of friendship. I also heard guys do text if they’re interested but I rlly don’t know. I don’t have too many guy friends and this is the first semester I’ve ever rlly talked to a lot of guys…
He’s also very kind and respectful and whenever I talk with him, I don’t feel uncomfortable or feeling like he’s belittling me which happens often. He also never rlly sent super dry texts but also not super long long detailed ones but just the perfect length.
This Sunday, I decided I’m gonna dress rlly cute, go downtown, and eat good food and buy some tshirts. I’m wanting to go with someone so I can socialize bc I’ve been missing that a bit. My roommate is also gone until Monday bc they’re on vacation :(( I want to text him asking if he wants to join but I’m scared and I also know what the right answer for me is, which is not texting him but a part of me rlly wants to bc I feel like he won’t oppose to it and would enjoy catching up with me.
Do you think I should ask or no?
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As a guy, I could see him not being interested. This is only a small glimpse of your relationship with him though so I’m not gonna go out on a limb and say he’s not interested. But it doesn’t seem like if he hasn’t texted in 2-3 months you’re definitely not the first person on his mind. It’s okay though we’ve all been there dude. You have lost any battle you’ve faced yet, what makes you think you’ll lose this one?