I tend to like seeing my partner orgasm each time and have put a lot of emotional value in that. I learned a few years ago that my partner prefers to orgasm less frequently and practices edging. I eventually tried it, butt long story short it’s not for me. Our compromise? We engage in me teasing to stimulate him, and he makes sure to finish me off. And once a week or so I get a big finish out of him and love that moment more.
It took a while to find balance and accept, but when I did it’s given me so much peace of mind. It’s also given me the freedom to explore my own body more and embrace exhibitionism to show myself off knowing it’s turning him on too.
Sharing in case anyone else is experiencing something similar!!
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If he can wait a week then thats great!!
We use a male chastity device. I have a custom 3D printed cage and a Prince Albert piercing. It’s inescapable without destroying the device.
I LOOOOOVE being locked up,teased whenever she’s in the mood, and only allowed to cum once every 4–6 weeks. I go down on her and do every you can imagine to pleasure her and make sure she orgasms anytime she wants.
She loves the dynamic. She was receptive to it immediately but felt bad for a few years because I wasn’t cumming as often as her. Once she wrapped her head around the idea that I LIKE this, she went full steam ahead with the teasing and denial.
8yrs and happy as can be.
Super hot to hear about your sex life. How do you feel about ass play?
Glad y’all found a great way to incorporate edging into you’re relationship