I’ve been dating my now boyfriend for about 3 months and he’s yes great, but for awhile now I’ve been getting the suspicion that he only wants me for sex… I’m not all that self advocated so in other words, I’m almost a complete pushover. My boyfriend only asks me to hang out with him when hes horny; When he wants s_x ,(about every weekend) he’ll ask me to come over. One thing, he and i have only ever done it once, all the other times I’ve just sucked him off. My friends have told me he’s known for cheating so that also fuels my suspicions! I asked my friend to keep an eye on him for now.. He turns off his location whenever he’s out, hides his phone from me, has OPENLY denied being taken infront of me at least 4 times, etc. I’m not sure if it’s just me but something isn’t right and I don’t know whether to stay or leave… Please, put me in my place if its just me! š¤
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Yeah just leave him already
Leave. Heās shady as hell. Edit: had an āexā like this (only lasted 2 months lmao) who did the exact same thing. Itāll end badly if you donāt leave now, trust me
Leave this “relationship”
Jesus christ I’m sorry but it’s time to get some self respect. He denied being taken 4 times in front of you?
Yea he’s using you 100%. Stop being a pushover.
Maaate c’mon leave already
He’s publicly denied being with anyone to your face, and what ppl are telling you only FUELS your suspicions? Girl, he’s single.
You are essentially his blow-job on demand. If you are happy with this, stay. If you aren’t, leave him.
If you leave, do not get with someone else until you educate yourself on boundaries, otherwise it will happen again.
No heās not āgreatā hon. A great partner wants to be with you because he enjoys your company, enjoys talking with you, experiencing things with you in addition to intimacy. Value yourself more because it seems he only values your blowjobs. If heās not returning the favourš¤Æ then you are getting nothing out of this nothing relationship. Fuck him off right out of your life. Quite frankly the only thing heāll probably give you if you stay is a STD!
Deny anything sexual for 3 weeks and see how he reacts and youāll know how he sees you
You arenāt in a relationship. Youāre his side piece. He openly stated while in front of you that he is single to others. Just move on.
Please have enough self esteem to understand this person does not have even the most basic sense of respect for you. Don’t waste your time on him.
Yeah the location turning off if yāall actually do that is one thing but hiding the phone yeah get the hell outta there even if u donāt even ask and they always hide it you know they up to no good
Leave!
Read this back to yourself, and ask, āif a friend told me this is how their bf treated them, what would I say?ā Youād say āget out and find someone who respects you, life is too short to spend with gross dudes like that!ā
It sounds like the perfect “relationship”.
I promise you. This man is not to be trusted. Just leave him for your sake
He is a walking red flag. Leave before he hurts you even more š
Bruh rhats a friend with benefits not a damn bf