My girlfriend likes it when I fuck her harder (like faster and with more force essentially like pounding).
The problem is this is kinda hard for me when I’m on my knees. Like I can’t go that hard when I’m in missionary on top of her….
Do you know of any positions that would be best for this? For example, I’ve found that standing doggystyle is great because I can kinda bend my knees and pound really hard and she loves it! But the problem is that she says it’s uncomfortable for her to stand because she has to kinda bend over to make the angle okay and that is uncomfortable.
Any suggestions would be amazing thank you everyone. (also side note will lube help? I thought lube makes the friction go down so it doesn’t feel as good for her)
5 comments
Regarding missionary, if you have a full mattress, she will tend to sink into it, which makes it difficult. You can put some pillows under her to bring her up.
Regarding doggy, you can adjust your height by standing on something if necessary.
Cowgirl is always nice. She can take control and go as fast and as deep as she wants.
Sportsheets makes a number of position aids. Most of them work by providing superior grip placement. More leverage means you can get harder and deeper.
In addition, sex wedge furniture can also help with a number of positions.
Are you using a bed and/or pillows to your advantage? If you’re [standing and she’s kneeling](https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/menshealth-standingdragon-v2-1581102893.jpg?crop=1xw:1xh;center,top&resize=980:*) on the bed, you can do doggy in that position.
Same thing goes if [she’s on her back, holding her knees back/open while you’re standing](https://www.mensjournal.com/.image/c_limit%2Ccs_srgb%2Cq_auto:good%2Cw_618/MTk2MTM2MjA2NzAzNDY5NzEz/1-edge-of-the-bed-sex-position.webp).
If you’re both on the bed, you can try a [“plank-style” missionary](https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/menshealth-mountainclimber-1581103074.jpg?crop=1xw:1xh;center,top&resize=980:*) which takes the pressure off your knees but it’ll tax your arms and core instead.
Last, there’s also the [“V” position](https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/menshealth-openpicer2-1599579913.jpg?crop=1xw:1xh;center,top&resize=980:*) where you are on your knees but at an angle that shouldn’t necessary tax them as much since the weight is more balanced from the back. It allows for deep/open access in that position for her.
My man fucks me super hard and deep when I’m on all fours on the bed or on the couch or a chair and he is standing up – I think that is an easy way for a guy to get lots of good leverage for a good pounding 😉 mmmm
As simply put as I can, any position that allows you to grip a stationary object ie. sheets to an extent, a counter, a damn boulder, anything that wont slip on you. From there, use that leverage and bottom her out!!!! She’s gonna go crazy I promise….oh, and a liberator wedge, that always helps keep me stationary a bit more when I’m getting pounded 