I understand that people receiving the toy enjoy both the sensations and the dominance, but what about for the women? What gets you off, if you even get off from it at all?

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  1. People can use double ended dildos, so they experience physical pleasure. People can stick vibrators between the harness and themselves to get physical stimulation. People get off on the domination aspect. And people can get off on watching their partner writhe in pleasure

  2. My wife told me:

    The psychological aspect of being the one “doing the fucking” vs the one getting fucked. The power exchange.

    She knows I enjoy it, and she loves me.

    If doing it doggy style, she likes to watch it go in and out. She likes to see it stretch me out and she likes to see my ass lips as they slide along the shaft.

  3. I’ve asked several partners this. I’m a switch top, but NGL, prostate orgasms are fucking ridiculously powerful in my experience, so getting pegged is just fucking mint. I’m bi so I’ve bottomed for guys, but getting pegged is just, the fucking tops. (Pun not intended)

    Anyways to get to the point, my favorite answer I’ve ever gotten was my partner telling me that there is a certain je ne sais quoi about watching a large normally dominant man squirm uncontrollably on their lap while they pound (his) ass.

    They later came out to be a gay trans man, which made a lot of sense, but from a guys perspective, there is a lot to be enjoyed from watching my partner squirm and cum on my dick, so I get it.

  5. my partner is vulnerable and trusts me. such a beautiful bond. and having the dick to dick him down….while he squirms like a sexy little slut with zero to no control. makes my pussy twitch just thinking about it.

  6. So I haven’t gotten to the stage of pegging with my D yet BUT I love doing other things to his arse, like rimming and fingering. I love it because I know he loves it and I love how intimate it is too.

  8. For me, what turns me on the most are the moans. Guys moan so much more when they’re getting pegged, and so much more animalistic too! One thing I especially like is that he’s still within range for me to jerk him off if I want, or if I want to go the more teasing route, I just peg him until he cums hands free, which is really hot. It’s not so much the power dynamic for me as it is the pleasure for him. Then again, we don’t usually do dominant/submissive in bed, it’s moreso just whatever feels the best, so…

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