Ok, so I(21m)went and got coffee with this girl(19f) and we hit it off super well. We ended up talking for about three hours. After our date, she sent me a text saying she really enjoyed herself which I replied that I had a of fun too and we should go out again sometime. Which she replied with a “for sure!” We’d been talking and I suggested that we go out on a second date for a picnic in the park. I gave her a specific time and date to try to put ball in her court to see if she was interested. She told replied, “idk I might be busy that day.” I guess I’m not sure if that’s a “I’m busy because I don’t want to date you” or that she’s genuinely doesn’t know. I guess I’m getting mixed signals and I don’t want to drag it and make it harder for both of us if she isn’t.
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Talking for 3 hours sounds promising. Maybe ask what she wants to do and when? Maybe she doesn’t want to do a picnic?
Sounds like a soft rejection. Talk to other women.