I’ve been talking to this guy for a few weeks and we even went on a date last week. we both expressed that we liked each other and wanna continue seeing each other. today he sent me a text saying that he likes me and wants to keep talking to me but he has his mcat in two months and needs to focus on that. he said that i’m a great girl and that if i’m still single after he takes it then he would love to continue going out with me. I like him a lot but am I crazy if i kinda just wait these two months for him

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  1. MCAT situation one of the few times I’d buy a ‘not now’ excuse. Whether to wait 2 months or not is your decision but the excuse alone is legit because MCAT score could make or break where you are gonna end up in life.

  2. Mcats are no joke. He sounds legit to me. Wait it out and link up with him afterwards.

    You could also say “hey if you’re ever studying late and need be to bring food for a pick me up, I can do that too” or just anything to help him out. That’d make him like you that much more. I know if I was working my ass off and a girl brought me some food to keep me going, I’d be nothing but grateful for her.

  3. I’m (28F) currently “waiting” 4 months for a guy (30M) to move through a big career promotion/training so no, not crazy! I work with him so I know it’s a valid reason for “not now” and we will still be in contact regularly and going on dates when he learns what his new schedule will be!

  4. I would say just don’t get your expectations too high while you wait, if for some reason it won’t work out you’ll feel broken. Nevertheless, no problem waiting for 2 months, keep living your life and don’t restrict yourself too much because you’re not exclusive.

  5. Would you want to keep talking to other guys during the 2 months? Or will you strictly stop talking to other guys to wait for him?

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