About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and we made out, swapped numbers and kind of went home together. We didn’t do anything at home just talked and he said he wanted to hang out sober. I texted him the following week to try and make plans, he was sick so we had to wait. About 2 weeks after meeting we went on a date that went pretty well, it was very PG, we talked and got to know each other and kissed goodbye. When leaving he was saying he wanted to hang again throughout the date and making comments like “you should teach me to play tennis”. The next day he followed my ig and liked a post, i did the same and 2 days later slid up on my ig story asking when he can see me again. We made plans to hang over the weekend. When sunday came he asked if i wanted to text him after my shift, I did so, he had a midterm paper due and was taking longer than expected so he was flakey. He said he would text me when he’s done and I said that’s fine, and if it’s too much we can just plan for another time. He never responded. Then that wednesday we ran into each other in the bathroom and he said he liked my hair(i bleached it) and that he would text me. I was short with him because I was on the phone but I still made it look like I was making an effort. It is now saturday and he has not texted me. I honestly haven’t dated too much and I do not know exactly what he is trying to say. It seems like he doesn’t care too much to hang out with me otherwise he would be making more of an effort then again it has only been a week. He could also be just feeling pretty casual about us especially because I had said we can be friends with benefits, but this is not how I would treat a friend. I am planning on not texting him and letting plans fall where they may, especially because I feel like I was initiating our date more than he was. Honestly any advice would be appreciated.