I (27M) matched with a girl (25F) on bumble and we seemed to hit it off. We live a few hours away from each other. We texted for a couple weeks and I drove to her place on the second weekend and we planned to spend the weekend together at her place. Both of us had a lot of fun, went out for drinks, I cooked for her the next day and she seemed to be enjoying my company the whole time. We did continue texting the week after that but the texts seemed to be losing steam and the very next weekend she texted me saying that she isn’t feeling it and is not looking to date at the moment. We just send random snaps once in a while and don’t text each other a lot at the moment. I really seem to like her and wish I could go out with her again.should I maybe send her some flowers and a small gift with a card or something as a sweet gesture hoping she might be interested in talking again.
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You can buy flowers and then hand them to the receptionist in the friend zone.
I wouldn’t waste your money. She already said she wasn’t feeling it.
Don’t send her flowers, she was very clear about not feeling you and not wanting to date. You’d feel very upset if you went out your way to do all that and she tells you once again that she’s not interested.
If there was a reason other than you simply want to, then yes. But it sounds like she just isn’t seeing a reason to be anything more than friendly. If she is really into flowers, planting or collecting then sure. If not, maybe send her something she likes. If its legos, a little box set. Don’t do anything overboard just something you would give a good friend.