So about two months ago I met this girl at a bar and we hit it off from the beginning. We were going out together, hooking up, everything was pretty good. No arguments or anything. But over this time period she tells me she just broke up with a guy right before I met her. I don’t think it’s a big deal at the time. Recently, she’s been acting kinda weird. Like she used to invite me to hang out with her all the time and she stopped. She also stopped replying whenever I tried to make plans with her or came up with reasons why she couldn’t which is unlike her. And then now she starts posting social media pictures with her ex again, like hanging out with him. I haven’t said anything to her but I think now that I was nothing more than a rebound. I’m obviously pretty hurt by this, any advice? Do I just have no chance at all with her and should I move on now?
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We can’t control how other people feel nor can we control their actions. It’s pretty clear when someone doesn’t want to continue a relationship they become distant and stop replying (within reason). It hurts but it’s reality. I would say just put her on silent and focus on your hobbies or interests and spoiling yourself. Also, let yourself feel the sadness to get over it.