Never had anything in me before. I’ve tried several times to finger my self. Even did it looking thru a hand mirror, my fingers can’t fit in all the way.
I’ve only ever tried after having multiple orgasms.
I just wanna know if there’s something i could do to make it easier and make sure i’m being safe. Please help.
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Use lube rub nipples relax your muscles have a drink something to relax your body and less tension
It sounds like you are stressing and trying to really focus on this. Stress and tension will make your whole body tense, vagina included. Maybe worth trying to explore yourself in a more “I’m relaxing” session than “i’m trying make this happen” session? Give yourself some time, listen to how your body feels, and work to let yourself *relax*.
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Safe should be covered by washing your hands and trimming your nails. Easier is just practice and deciding what you like.
Not a women, but my gf (and many women as far as i know) never inserted her fingers. Its more just rubbing the clit and labia. Just feel down there what’s feeling good. Mirror could help in finding your clit for example.
Finger in hole, repeat
Are you just curious about how it feels? If you’re giving yourself orgasms I’m assuming you’re stimulating your clitoris (which for me is better than fingering anyway, but everyone’s different). The most pleasurable spots on/in a woman are the clit and the g-spot. You can reach your g-spot with your fingers but a specific g-spot toy would probably feel better.
Best advice I can give is to stay relaxed. Turn down the lights, get comfy, take your time with yourself. Learning what you love is always a good thing.
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It’s a lot easier to reach if you can get into a good position and tilt your hips the right way.
Make sure that your fingers are clean, can use latex gloves or condom when in doubt
Stop if it hurts, and try slower
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