I’m 26 years old, I tried any products and any condoms to help me control my ejaculation with no success

I’m 26 years old, I tried any products and any condoms to help me last longer in bed with no success. I always get into long foreplay with my girlfriend and she really likes it, but when it comes the time for intercourse if I come in a minute or so she would just straight away stop, get off, close the light and go to sleep without saying anything. Obviously annoyed, upset, she has the right to feel like that and I personally feel like shit. In the past I had some ex where they were patient and were giving me a second round and both of us were happy. But this time it is not the case. How can I sort this problem once and for all? We’ve been together for almost a year and she doesn’t seem like she wants to break up just because of sex, but still, it is not normal. Thanks in advance guys. 🙁